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Lina (UPCM Class 1967) and BC Castro planted 3 trees in memory of Nestor Uy

Saturday, April 25, 2026

3 trees were planted in memory of
Nestor Lotilla Uy

Dear Connie,Thinking of you and your family in this time of grief. for the loss of your beloved Nestor, Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Philippe, Jennifer and Ava Hum planted 3 trees in memory of Nestor Uy

Thursday, April 23, 2026

3 trees were planted in memory of
Nestor Lotilla Uy

Our deepest condolences to the Uy family. We hope you can find comfort in your memories of Nestor and in the company of loved ones at this time. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

EULOGY FOR NESTOR LOTILLA UY April 27, 2026 There are people who fill a room with noise, and there are people who fill a room with presence. My father, Nestor, was the second kind. He didn't need to be the loudest voice to be felt. He simply had to be there, and you knew everything was going to be okay. Nestor was a man of quiet steadiness. As an accountant, he understood that the most important work often happens behind the scenes and he brought that same spirit of care and patience to everything he did. He kept the books. He kept the family. He kept us grounded when the rest of the world felt unsteady. For my dad, family always came first, which was a value that was instilled in him at an early age by his aunt and uncle who raised him and whom he lovingly called his parents. In 1983, we traveled to the Philippines for the first time as a family. Dad wanted to return to his roots and, more importantly, to introduce us to our Lola and all our relatives who shaped him into the gentle soul we all knew him to be. That trip, and all the subsequent trips to the Philippines, reminded us to truly appreciate all that we had and the life that he (and my mom) created for us in the states. Dad was one of the hardest people to buy gifts for because he didn’t want or ask for much. He was a man with simple tastes whose favorite stores were Home Depot and Costco. Rather than selecting the flashiest or the most expensive, he preferred items that were classic, durable, or practical. And even after years of use, he always claimed, “Why buy a new one? It’s still good!” This is why we drove cars until they were 15 or even 20 years old with over 200,000 miles on them. This is why there is still some furniture in the house that is older than my brother Lawrence. This is why he wore the same watch that he bought 53 years ago when he married my mom (and got the matching watch for her, too). Dad was frugal because he was always planning ahead, always saving for the future, and always sacrificing his wants in order to provide and take care of his family. He found his joy in the details. He found joy in the garden, where he'd spend hours tending the yard with a focus that could only come from someone who understood that good things take time. He found joy in travel, where he didn't just move through places, he observed them, framed them, held them still. As you all know, photography was my dad’s passion project and you could always rely on him to bring his camera to every party and on every trip. He could look at an ordinary moment such as the dappled light that shined through the trees or a face at the right second and see something worth preserving forever. That instinct however was never really about photography. It was about him. Nestor paid attention. He noticed. And what he noticed most was the people he loved. He cared for his family the way he did everything else, not loudly, not with grand gestures, but consistently and completely. Day after day, year after year. That kind of love doesn't make headlines. But it shapes lives. It shaped ours. When my sister Natalie went to medical school, she moved back home to live with our parents. And whenever it snowed, my dad would wake up really early to start Nat’s car and remove all the snow from it so that it was ready and warm for my sister. Growing up, Sundays were for football and it was a special time for my brother with our dad. Watching sports is now a tradition that my brother shares with his own son, Lincoln. During my mom’s 80th birthday party, my mom wanted to dance with my dad, but by then, his mobility was very limited, so we were planning to remove their dance from the program. Yet, my dad wanted to dance with my mom because he knew it would mean so much to her, so we helped him out of his wheelchair and watched him dance with my mom one last time. 24 years ago, I brought Bob home for the first time to meet the family. The greatest love that my dad showed me was welcoming Bob into the family and loving him as his own son. We will miss his steadiness. We will miss his warmth. We will miss the way he made ordinary days feel held together by something solid and good. But we carry him forward in the way we notice things. In the patience we practice. In the care we give to the people in front of us. In every quiet, faithful act of love. One of my fondest memories of my dad is when he tucked me into bed each night when I was kid. He would sit on the edge of my bed and brush my hair with the palm of his hand. He would brush my hair until I was asleep, or at least until he thought I was asleep. He would then lean down, kiss my forehead, and whisper, “Goodnight, Darryl.” With my eyes closed, I would hear him get up from my bed. I would then peek through one open eyelid as he walked towards the bedroom door and I would say to myself, “Goodnight, daddy.” But now it’s time for you, dad, to sleep, for me to brush your hair with the palm of my hand, and to say one last time, “Goodnight, daddy.”

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Connie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Connie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Connie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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Connie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

Nestor's wedding card. October 14, 1972. Our 50th golden wedding anniversary celebration. October 2022.

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Natalie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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The following is the speech I gave from me and my brothers to Dad for his surprise 70th birthday party: We want to thank you for coming today to celebrate our father's 70th birthday. I think most people in this room, I not all, have been to some sort of ceremony or celebration honoring our mother – whether it was a lifetime achievement award, a presidential award or being a a superwoman (it's getting old, I know); so today it's about time that we had a day to honor our father instead. First, I want to share 2 secrets. #1. While it may seem that our mom is the natural leader in every aspect of her life, it is actually our dad who wears the pants in the family. So it's only appropriate that he finally gets his own big party. #2. While it may seem that I have turned exactly into my mother – following in her footsteps as a pediatric nephrologist, I am and will always be daddy's little girl. So now, onto our words of gratitude from 3 of us: Dad – you are a man of few words (unless you've had a few too many drinks, and then you're a man of few words who likes to repeat those few words), but you have taught us so many life lessons over the years. While mom taught us how to create award winning science projects and memorize multiplication tables, you taught us more practical and useful things – like how to ride a bike, how to drive safely, how to save money and how to pour a beer correctly at the age of 5. But most importantly, you have simply taught us through your examples. Of course over 70 years life is not always easy or smooth sailing even though professional setbacks, multiple health problems/surgeries, and signs of aging, you have always remained strong with a positive attitude, never allowing setback disrupt our family. You have shown your love over the years in various ways – working hard, saving enough money to send us all to private high school, college and grad school, and sacrificing your dreams to watch us reach our own. You are a humble man who puts his family first, never asks for anything in return. So today we want to thank you and give you the recognition you deserve. We are so very proud to be your children and we hope that we haven't disappointed you. Happy Birthday Dad! We love you.

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Lawrence Uy uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

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It’s hard to sum up into words all the feelings and memories I have of my dad, but I’ll start with some of my fondest memories I have of him. My dad would partake in the weekly football pool to pick the winners of each game against the point spread. He would let me help pick the winners even though I knew nothing about football at the time and then we’d watch the games on Sundays and circle the ones we picked correctly. It wasn’t really about watching football or rooting for a particular team, it was just something that he and I did together. As kids, we went to a lot of amusement parks, and my dad would let us drag him on all sorts of rides including roller coasters although he drew the line at coasters that had loops. When I was older, unemployed and living at home, my dad would regularly have lunch at home as he worked nearby. On Fridays, it was our tradition to order a pizza for lunch and eat together. I used to get so excited to get whatever hand me downs I could get of my dad’s - his old briefcase, his old camera (although I think that may have actually gone to my brother or sister). I just wanted so much to be like him. My dad has always been my role model for how I hoped I would be as a father when I had kids of my own. When each of my sons were born, I saw a tenderness and a love in his eyes when he held them. Even when Parkinson’s started to significantly impair my dad’s mobility, I could tell he was happy to just be in his grandson’s presence and watch him play. Dad, I hope I can be as good a father to Lincoln as you were to Darryl, Nat and me. Love you forever, Lawrence

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Raphael Perpetuo Lotilla uploaded photo(s)

Friday, May 15, 2026

In the tightly-knit Lotilla clan, Manong Nestor was the first among his cousins and the generations preceding them to leave the familiar environment of Antique and the Philippines in order to pursue abroad a professional career. Nong Nestor was orphaned early with the death of his mother shortly after his birth at the outbreak of World War II. Stories abound of his having to be raised on the milk of goats and cows that trailed the family as they evacuated to distant areas in order to avoid the invading Japanese invaders. His aunts had to learn how to make condensed milk to avoid running out of supply for him. Along the way, he was carrried in a “patadyong,” a tubular wrap-around. The entire clan, particularly his eldest paternal aunt Mamá Raymunda, took on the responsibility of caring for him. After the war, his maternal aunt, Tita Eling Pechueco, and her husband Tito Ignacio Uy, asked for Nong Nestor to be taken into their care in San Jose, Antique while his siblings remained with their paternal aunts in their hometown of Sibalom. Despite his physical separation from the rest of the Lotilla clan, his adoptive parents made sure that he was present for all the significant events of the Lotilla family. He nurtured this familial closeness even as he started on a new life in the US. Specially after his retirement, he and his wife Nang Connie visited Antique as often as they could and enjoyed joining the yearly clan reunions. Nong Nestor was a trail-blazer among the Lotilla cousins. After he embarked on his foreign sojourn, the option to live life in a foreign country became a viable one—with its challenges but none of them insurmountable. He also represented the transition between the pre-War Lotilla cousins and the post-War one. For the former, he was among the youngest cousins to be doted on. For the latter, he was a role model who pursued a professional career in a foreign country but remained rooted among his family and loved ones. He thrived in his family’s love and returned the same. May he rest in God’s love for eternity. Our love and condolences to Nang Connie, Lawrence, Darryl, Natalie and all their loved ones.

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SIMON BODGER uploaded photo(s)

Sunday, May 10, 2026

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The following pictures were taken during different Family events held at Uy’s Residence, Pine Brook, NJ between the years 2011 and 2023. Photographs from the Somera-Bodger Archive.

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Darryl Uy uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, May 2, 2026

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EULOGY FOR NESTOR LOTILLA UY April 27, 2026 There are people who fill a room with noise, and there are people who fill a room with presence. My father, Nestor, was the second kind. He didn't need to be the loudest voice to be felt. He simply had to be there, and you knew everything was going to be okay. Nestor was a man of quiet steadiness. As an accountant, he understood that the most important work often happens behind the scenes and he brought that same spirit of care and patience to everything he did. He kept the books. He kept the family. He kept us grounded when the rest of the world felt unsteady. For my dad, family always came first, which was a value that was instilled in him at an early age by his aunt and uncle who raised him and whom he lovingly called his parents. In 1983, we traveled to the Philippines for the first time as a family. Dad wanted to return to his roots and, more importantly, to introduce us to our Lola and all our relatives who shaped him into the gentle soul we all knew him to be. That trip, and all the subsequent trips to the Philippines, reminded us to truly appreciate all that we had and the life that he (and my mom) created for us in the states. Dad was one of the hardest people to buy gifts for because he didn’t want or ask for much. He was a man with simple tastes whose favorite stores were Home Depot and Costco. Rather than selecting the flashiest or the most expensive, he preferred items that were classic, durable, or practical. And even after years of use, he always claimed, “Why buy a new one? It’s still good!” This is why we drove cars until they were 15 or even 20 years old with over 200,000 miles on them. This is why there is still some furniture in the house that is older than my brother Lawrence. This is why he wore the same watch that he bought 53 years ago when he married my mom (and got the matching watch for her, too). Dad was frugal because he was always planning ahead, always saving for the future, and always sacrificing his wants in order to provide and take care of his family. He found his joy in the details. He found joy in the garden, where he'd spend hours tending the yard with a focus that could only come from someone who understood that good things take time. He found joy in travel, where he didn't just move through places, he observed them, framed them, held them still. As you all know, photography was my dad’s passion project and you could always rely on him to bring his camera to every party and on every trip. He could look at an ordinary moment such as the dappled light that shined through the trees or a face at the right second and see something worth preserving forever. That instinct however was never really about photography. It was about him. Nestor paid attention. He noticed. And what he noticed most was the people he loved. He cared for his family the way he did everything else, not loudly, not with grand gestures, but consistently and completely. Day after day, year after year. That kind of love doesn't make headlines. But it shapes lives. It shaped ours. When my sister Natalie went to medical school, she moved back home to live with our parents. And whenever it snowed, my dad would wake up really early to start Nat’s car and remove all the snow from it so that it was ready and warm for my sister. Growing up, Sundays were for football and it was a special time for my brother with our dad. Watching sports is now a tradition that my brother shares with his own son, Lincoln. During my mom’s 80th birthday party, my mom wanted to dance with my dad, but by then, his mobility was very limited, so we were planning to remove their dance from the program. Yet, my dad wanted to dance with my mom because he knew it would mean so much to her, so we helped him out of his wheelchair and watched him dance with my mom one last time. 24 years ago, I brought Bob home for the first time to meet the family. The greatest love that my dad showed me was welcoming Bob into the family and loving him as his own son. We will miss his steadiness. We will miss his warmth. We will miss the way he made ordinary days feel held together by something solid and good. But we carry him forward in the way we notice things. In the patience we practice. In the care we give to the people in front of us. In every quiet, faithful act of love. One of my fondest memories of my dad is when he tucked me into bed each night when I was kid. He would sit on the edge of my bed and brush my hair with the palm of his hand. He would brush my hair until I was asleep, or at least until he thought I was asleep. He would then lean down, kiss my forehead, and whisper, “Goodnight, Darryl.” With my eyes closed, I would hear him get up from my bed. I would then peek through one open eyelid as he walked towards the bedroom door and I would say to myself, “Goodnight, daddy.” But now it’s time for you, dad, to sleep, for me to brush your hair with the palm of my hand, and to say one last time, “Goodnight, daddy.”

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Lawrence Uy uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, May 2, 2026

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It’s hard to sum up into words all the feelings and memories I have of my dad but I’ll start with some of my fondest memories I have of him. My dad would partake in the weekly football pool to pick the winners of each game against the point spread. He would let me help pick the winners even though I knew nothing about football at the time and then we’d watch the games on Sundays and circle the ones we picked correctly. It wasn’t really about watching football or rooting for a particular team, it was just something that he and I did together. As kids, we went to a lot of amusement parks and my dad would let us drag him on all sorts of rides including roller coasters although he drew the line at coasters that had loops. When I was older, unemployed and living at home, my dad would regularly have lunch at home as he worked nearby. On Fridays, it was our tradition to order a pizza for lunch and eat together. I used to get so excited to get whatever hand me downs I could get of my dad’s - his old briefcase, his old camera (although I think that may have actually gone to my brother or sister). I just wanted so much to be like him. My dad has always been my role model for how I hoped I would be as a father when I had kids of my own. When each of my sons were born, I saw a tenderness and a love in his eyes when he held them. Even when Parkinson’s started to significantly impair my dad’s mobility, I could tell he was happy to just be in his grandson’s presence and watch him play. Dad, I hope I can be as good a father to Lincoln as you were to Darryl, Nat and me. Love you forever, Lawrence

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Gaile & Ysa Coronado lit a candle

Saturday, May 2, 2026

To our dear tito Nestor, Your passing leaves a deep void, but your love and kindness will stay with us forever. May you rest well in the loving arms of our Lord, Jesus. You will always be remembered. Love, Gaile & Ysa

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Elsa & Edmund Coronado lit a candle

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Our heartfelt condolences to ate Baby, Lawrence, Darryl & Natalie… praying for eternal repose on the soul of kuya Nestor!!! We will miss you!

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Connie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Nestor's wedding card. October 14, 1972. Our 50th golden wedding anniversary celebration. October 2022.

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Natalie Uy uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, May 2, 2026

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The following is the speech I gave from me and my brothers to Dad for his surprise 70th birthday party: We want to thank you for coming today to celebrate our father's 70th birthday. I think most people in this room, I not all, have been to some sort of ceremony or celebration honoring our mother – whether it was a lifetime achievement award, a presidential award or being a a superwoman (it's getting old, I know); so today it's about time that we had a day to honor our father instead. First, I want to share 2 secrets. #1. While it may seem that our mom is the natural leader in every aspect of her life, it is actually our dad who wears the pants in the family. So it's only appropriate that he finally gets his own big party. #2. While it may seem that I have turned exactly into my mother – following in her footsteps as a pediatric nephrologist, I am and will always be daddy's little girl. So now, onto our words of gratitude from 3 of us: Dad – you are a man of few words (unless you've had a few too many drinks, and then you're a man of few words who likes to repeat those few words), but you have taught us so many life lessons over the years. While mom taught us how to create award winning science projects and memorize multiplication tables, you taught us more practical and useful things – like how to ride a bike, how to drive safely, how to save money and how to pour a beer correctly at the age of 5. But most importantly, you have simply taught us through your examples. Of course over 70 years life is not always easy or smooth sailing even though professional setbacks, multiple health problems/surgeries, and signs of aging, you have always remained strong with a positive attitude, never allowing setback disrupt our family. You have shown your love over the years in various ways – working hard, saving enough money to send us all to private high school, college and grad school, and sacrificing your dreams to watch us reach our own. You are a humble man who puts his family first, never asks for anything in return. So today we want to thank you and give you the recognition you deserve. We are so very proud to be your children and we hope that we haven't disappointed you. Happy Birthday Dad! We love you.

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Abigaile Coronado posted a condolence

Saturday, May 2, 2026

Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. My tito Nestor was a wonderful man and he was a pillar of love and strength to his family. We thank him for his kindness and extended love for us, my family, tita Baby’s siblings’ and their families. Tito Nestor is a silent uncle who cared for us all and he will never be forgotten. May his soul rest in peace. Love, Gaile

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Vivian Lau lit a candle

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

To Larry, Darryl, and Nat, You, your mom, and Lincoln have been in my thoughts. I am so sad about your father. Your dad is such a wonderful, generous, smart, solid, and loving person. He gave one of the most memorable father toasts of all time at Larry's and Jas' wedding - funny, poignant, heartfelt and filled with great advice. Sending love and my deepest condolences to all of you.

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Jason Ma lit a candle

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

To Lawrence, Darryl, and Nat, I am forever grateful that I was able to celebrate your dad with you and your mom. Darryl, your moving tribute was so poignant -- although quiet and low-key, I too felt his presence early on. Since the day you and him welcomed me in with open arms, he has been a tremendous role model to me as a husband, father, but most importantly, a human being. He was truly One of One. I am humbled to help you carry his spirit with us as we move forward together as Family. Much Love, Your Brother in Bond

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SIMON BODGER uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

SIMON BODGER Brother-In-Law The first time I met Nestor I noticed that he was using a very impressive single lens reflex film camera. I’d been involved in music photography for a while and couldn’t help notice. I do seem to recall that Nestor was shooting something heavy and high end like a Canon or Nikon both of which were out of my budget at the time. Also, bear in mind that this was during an era when cheap disposable cameras were the cell phone equivalent back in the day. I soon realized that photography was a huge passion in Nestor’s life and it was something that we we would often talk about. I was never a tech geek so the early digital cameras passed me by but I couldn’t help be impressed by Nestor’s knowledge and enthusiasm. He had the kind of joy and sense of discovery that made you feel glad to be around him. I was fortunate that Nestor brought his happy disposition into my life and I will miss him terribly. The picture below below catches Nestor in one of his “photography zones”. Photograph by Janet Lee Loree.

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Raphael Perpetuo Lotilla uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

In the tightly-knit Lotilla clan, Manong Nestor was the first among his cousins and the generations preceding them to leave the familiar environment of Antique and the Philippines in order to pursue abroad a professional career. Nong Nestor was orphaned early with the death of his mother shortly after his birth at the outbreak of World War II. Stories abound of his having to be raised on the milk of goats and cows that trailed the family as they evacuated to distant areas in order to avoid the invading Japanese invaders. His aunts had to learn how to make condensed milk to avoid running out of supply for him. Along the way, he was carrried in a “patadyong,” a tubular wrap-around. The entire clan, particularly his eldest paternal aunt Mamá Raymunda, took on the responsibility of caring for him. After the war, his maternal aunt, Tita Eling Pechueco, and her husband Tito Ignacio Uy, asked for Nong Nestor to be taken into their care in San Jose, Antique while his siblings remained with their paternal aunts in their hometown of Sibalom. Despite his physical separation from the rest of the Lotilla clan, his adoptive parents made sure that he was present for all the significant events of the Lotilla family. He nurtured this familial closeness even as he started on a new life in the US. Specially after his retirement, he and his wife Nang Connie visited Antique as often as they could, and enjoyed joining the yearly clan reunions. Nong Nestor was a trail-blazer among the Lotilla cousins. After he embarked on his foreign sojourn, the option to live life in a foreign country became a viable one—with its challenges but none of them insurmountable. He also represented the transition between the pre-War Lotilla cousins and the post-War one. For the former, he was among the youngest cousins to be doted on. For the latter, he was a role model who pursued a professional career in a foreign country but remained rooted among his family and loved ones. He thrived in his family’s love, and returned the same. May he rest in God’s love for eternity. Our love and condolences to Nang Connie, Lawrence, Darryl, Natalie and all their loved ones.

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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Our deepest condolence to Connie and familyLove and prayers,Florie and Manny Mangahas Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Somera Family purchased flowers

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Somera Family

purchased the Indoor Garden Basket for the family of Nestor Uy. Send Flowers

Forever be remembered and be loved. Rest in peace kuya Nestor.

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From : Lucy Galera and family purchased flowers

Sunday, April 26, 2026

From : Lucy Galera and family

purchased the White Designer's Choice for the family of Nestor Uy. Send Flowers

Our Sincerest Condolences to the Uy family

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Frank Porcelli and Lea Frain purchased flowers

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Frank Porcelli and Lea Frain

purchased the Designer's Choice Bouquet and planted a memorial tree for the family of Nestor Uy. Send Flowers

Connie, With deepest sympathy on the passing of your beloved Nestor. May you find comfort in the cherished memories you hold in your heart.

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Frank Porcelli and Lea Frain planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Connie, With deepest sympathy on the passing of your beloved Nestor. May you find comfort in the cherished memories you hold in your heart. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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NAZARIO SOMERA uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, April 25, 2026

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NAZARIO L. SOMERA Brother-In-Law The following is a transcription of the speech I gave at Kuya Nestor’s 70th Birthday Celebration: “It was the year of 1998 when Dr. William Slater, my cardiologist told me that I needed to have an angioplasty after the bad result of my stress test. I got scared so I called the doctor in the family, Connie (we call her Ate Baby) about this and she said “your Kuya Nestor had one and it was successful”. For the non-Filipinos “Kuya and Ate” is a respectful address to the elders. Remember, Kuya Nestor, you and I spoke over the phone about this procedure and you said it's an in-and-out procedure which gave me strength and the courage to go ahead. But this didn't work out well in my case as I had a bad reaction to the chemicals which caused a heart attack which led to a quadruple bypass. This was both a bad thing and a good thing because if I hadn't undergone the angioplasty I could have had the heart attack any time soon whereas after my bypass my surgeon told me that I now had the heart of a 30 year old. So because of this I hope that I will get to experience what you are celebrating today which is your 70th birthday. You may wonder why I am talking about health issues at this moment. This is because both Kuya Nestor and I have open hearts. Mine is of the surgical kind while Kuya Nestor's open heart is through his generosity, kindness and love. The first time Kuya Nestor showed his character was when Mamang and Papang came to America. He and the whole Uy family opened the door of their house to accommodate them for several years. Since then their door has always been open to the family for events like Erly and Elsa's visits to America, Pinky's bridal shower, graduation parties for the Reyes children and even the engagement announcement for our first cousin Joy Miller. Kuya Nestor also makes sure that all the brothers-in-law (Nilo and Kenneth, who cannot make it at this time, Lou, John and Raul) are fully welcome whether it's through watching TV, small talk, food, drinks or relaxation. Kuya Nestor, you are one of the few people (maybe the only person) who I have never seen upset or angry. Is this something like ying and yang where instead of bringing out your anger and frustrations you turn to things like attending to your beautiful landscaping or keeping your garage neat and in order. You are also a very soft spoken person compared to the loudmouth Somera siblings and “ang magugulo” each time we all get together at your house every Thanksgiving and the traditional Christmas Eve dinner and party. This is your opportunity to talk to your brothers-in-law Fred and Sonny, who could not be here today, and Ric, about fatherhood. To Benie and Thelma you discuss the ups and downs of married life. As an accountant you were able to help Annie with her taxes. Kuya Nestor, even more important than being generous financially is your unfailing ability to give everyone that most sacred possession of all: YOUR TIME!!! Whenever Pin was admitted to the hospital you always found the time to visit her every day and make sure her needs were taken care of while Raul and Reza were still in the Philippines. On my part, I was so delighted and grateful when you let one of my dream projects come true by turning your home into a mini photography studio for the family portrait sessions. As a matter of fact, it was last year 2011 at 10 Oak Lane where my beloved Simon presented to me this emerald cut stone ring taken from a gold trim red box and put it on my finger. Once again, Kuya Nestor, Ate Baby, Lawrence, Darryl and Natalie, from the Somera family, we want to say a BIG THANK YOU. MABUHAY KA ....MARAMING SALAMAT. DURO GID NGA SALAMAT KUYA NESTOR” The first 3 pictures on the next pages were taken during the Family Portrait Pictorial Sessions at Uy’s Residence in Pine Brook, NJ. The remaining 3 images are from the Late Mamang Teodora Laureta Somera’s 90th Birthday Celebrations held at Cibo Bar and Restaurant in Manhattan, NY.

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Jason and Ma Fam purchased flowers

Saturday, April 25, 2026

Jason and Ma Fam

purchased the Elegant Spring and planted a memorial tree for the family of Nestor Uy. Send Flowers

Dear Uy Family, We are sending our love and deepest condolensces. Mr Uy is such a generous, kind and loving person.

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Jason and Ma Fam planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Saturday, April 25, 2026

Dear Uy Family, We are sending our love and deepest condolensces. Mr Uy is such a generous, kind and loving person. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Rogie Dizon uploaded photo(s)

Saturday, April 25, 2026

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I met Nestor some 60 years ago when I joined Sigma Delta Phi fraternity, an honour fraternity in UE. Nestor was one of my Masters when I started as Neophyte. I immediately admired his respectable character and maybe one of the reasons I promptly signed the application.. Nestor was a good leader and he was so good to me for the whole duration of the program. I survived the hazing period because of him. I’m fortunate that I got a chance to visit Nestor in the hospital last year in Manila. I will forever cherish the moments of our togetherness and friendship. Lynn and I will miss you my friend . Rest in peace my brother.

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Friday, April 24, 2026

Philippine Pediatric Society in America

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Peace, Prayers and Blessings.

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Philippine Pediatric Society in America planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Friday, April 24, 2026

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Friday, April 24, 2026

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Fare thee well, dear Nestor! Our thoughts and prayers from your UPMASA NJ/NY/CT Chapter family!!

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Friday, April 24, 2026

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We share your grief at the passing of Nestor. We remember the warm friendship we have had. Our condolences and prayers.

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Friday, April 24, 2026

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Friday, April 24, 2026

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We are sorry for your loss. Our hearts are with you during this difficult time. Wishing you comfort, strength, and moments of peace as you remember

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Friday, April 24, 2026

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With deepest sympathy on the passing of Nestor Uy. May he rest in peace. Forever remembered.

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I met Nestor 65 years ago when we joined a fraternity in college, the beginning of a lifelong friendship. He became the president of the fraternity, and I was his treasurer. He came to America and I followed him a few months later. He was at the airport when I arrived and then helped me familiarize myself with the American life. He drove me around NY, NJ, Washington DC, and as far as Ohio. We were together most of the time as we both worked in NYC and resided in Jersey City. I was with Nestor when he first met his true love, Connie, and I was privy to his earlier dating history in the Philippines. I was there when Connie and Nestor got married, and we have shared all of life's milestones since then. I was honored to be asked to be Natalie's godfather. We travelled together extensively, and we hold get-togethers regularly; they host the barkada's Christmas and Summer parties. Nestor, a CPA, was a successful accountant. He and Connie raised a beautiful family, all three children are all successful, all of them IVY league school graduates. I will miss you Nestor; rest in peace, my friend.

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Friday, April 24, 2026

The Reyes Family

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Wishing you peace and comfort with loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Love, Nilo, Erly, Nico, Kat, Isa, Deana, Ed, Kim and Aurel

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The Reyes Family planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Friday, April 24, 2026

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Friday, April 24, 2026

Tito Nestor, you will always be remembered for your kindness, wisdom, and gentle spirit. You were not only a loving father to your family, but also a mentor and guiding light to many of us. I am deeply grateful for the time we shared—our conversations about photography, life, and the importance of building a meaningful legacy for our children. Your guidance and warmth left a lasting mark on me. Thank you for the wisdom you shared so generously. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered. Rest peacefully, Tito. - Ness

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Your selfless nature and the way you always looked out for others left a mark on my heart that will never fade. Thank you for your Kindness. RIP

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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purchased the Designer's Choice Bouquet and planted a memorial tree for the family of Nestor Uy. Send Flowers

With heartfelt condolences,

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Tony and Maritel Costales planted a tree in memory of Nestor Uy

Thursday, April 23, 2026

Dear Connie and family,We know that Nestor lived a full life and enjoyed life with you and his cherished family. Take care always.Tony and Maritel Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Dear Darryl and Family,Sending love and our deepest condolences as you remember your father. Love Beth and Chrissy Pili

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Our heartfelt condolences. We are thinking of you and your family and wishing you comfort and peace.

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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UY family,Our condolences. May he rest in peace. Love,Mejia family

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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May God bring you peace, comfort and strength. Our sincerest condolences to the amazing Uy family.

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Thursday, April 23, 2026

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Brenda Sy posted a condolence

Thursday, April 23, 2026

One of the most memorable moments I shared with Tito Nestor was when he gently asked, “Is my hot tea arriving today or tomorrow? I can really wait.” I laughed and apologized for forgetting, but in that simple exchange, I saw the depth of his patience, kindness, and gentle spirit. As a father, his love was unmistakable. His face would light up at the presence of Natalie, and his eyes would smile at the sound of Laurence’s and Daryl’s voices. As a husband, even in moments of pain, he never failed to think of Tita Connie—often asking about her and making sure she had eaten. The family often expresses their gratitude to me, but in truth, I am the one who is grateful. Caring for Tito Nestor was a privilege that changed me. Through him, I discovered a deeper capacity to love and serve someone I had not even known a year before. Tito Nestor and Tita Connie’s love stands as a testament to a lifelong commitment—one that truly reflects “for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.” In them, I witnessed a love that endures, a love that proves *FOREVER IS REAL” Thank you, Tito Nestor, for the memories, the lessons, and the inspiration. Taking care of you affirmed that people do not simply come into our lives by chance—they become part of who we are. Tito, you will always be remembered with love❤️ May you rest in the Lord’s arms. Brenda

Services Unique As Life

Nestor Lotilla Uy

1942 - 2026

Plant a tree in memory of Nestor

Visitation at Funeral Home

Mass of Christian Burial

Mausoleum Entombment

In Loving Memory

Nestor Uy

1942 - 2026

S.J. PRIOLA PARSIPPANY FUNERAL SERVICE

Phone: (973) 335-4700

Fax: (973) 335-4730
info@parsippanyfuneral.com

Services Unique As Life

Nestor Lotilla Uy

1942 - 2026

Plant a tree in memory of Nestor

Visitation at Funeral Home

Mass of Christian Burial

Mausoleum Entombment

In Loving Memory

Nestor Uy

1942 - 2026

60 North Beverwyck Road

Lake Hiawatha, NJ 07034

S.J. PRIOLA PARSIPPANY FUNERAL SERVICE

Phone: (973) 335-4700

Fax: (973) 335-4730info@parsippanyfuneral.com

Fax: (973) 335-4730
info@parsippanyfuneral.com