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Patsy Bougth posted a condolence

Thursday, September 4, 2014

My dearest Jeff, today God took a very precious gift from me. You have been gone from us for nine years. You were the light of my life. I had two of the best children that I could have asked for and on this day you were taken to your new home in heaven. There isn't a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I miss you so much. The years do get easier, but the pain never leaves me. It has left me with a huge hole in my heart that will never heal. I know that you are my little angel on my shoulder that is always looking out for me. God only takes the best, and you definitely were a good one. Please rest in peace my son. I love and miss you with all my heart. Love Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, October 4, 2013

My dearest Jeff, Today you would have turned 34 years old. I remember the day you were born. You were so excited to enter the world, you were born in the back of the ambulance. You were the cutest little boy. I just wish that you could be here with me and Jay to celebrate your birthday. There isn't a day that goes by that you are not in my thought and prayers. I know that you are at peace now, and that is important for me to know. I just wish that things turned out differently. You were the love and joy in my life. I know that Jason misses you also. You were starting to be friends after all these years. Please keep being that angel on my shoulder. There are many times that I can feel your presence with me. That gives me peace. I know that some day we will meet again in your new home in heaven. I love and miss you so much. Happy birthday Jeffrey. Know that you are always in my heart. Love you, Mom xoxoxo

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Patsy Bough posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

My dearest Jeff, today you have been gone from us for 8 years. I can't believe that it has been that long. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. You are greatly missed by everyone down here. I know that you are in a better place now, but I sure wish that things were different. When I see all your friends with families and little ones, in my heart I wish that would have been you. There is still a big hole in my heart. You took a piece of it with you the day you died. I know that you are at peace now, and you are looking down on me and Jason, and trying to keep us safe. You are definitely that angel on my shoulder. Know how much I loved you. Jason went up to visit you, and left you a lure. You can use it to catch that big fish in the sky. Rest in peace Jeff. I love you so much and miss you every day. Love, Mom xoxoxo

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Patsy Bough posted a condolence

Thursday, October 4, 2012

My dearest jeff, Today you would have turned 33 years old. I remember the day you were born, It is a day I will never forget. You came into the world so fast, and you lived your life the same way. You were the cutest little baby and very big. Today I am going up to visit you and celebrate your birthday with you. You are never far away from me in my thoughts and prayers. I know you are in a better place now, but I would loved to make you your favorite birthday dinner and have a real party for you. Know that you are loved and missed every day. I can still feel your presence with me all the time. Keep being the angel on my shoulder and watch over me. I love you and miss you so much. Happy Birthday Jeff. Love you lots, Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

My dearest Jeff, I can't believe that it has been 7 years that God took you away from me. I miss you so much. Whenever I go upstairs into your old room, I still feel your presence. The pain is still in my heart. I only wish I could have helped you with whatever was troubling you. I know you were not the type of person to open up to anyone, but I sure wish that you had. You can't even begin to know how much I could use you here with me now. I know you are in a better place then here, but sure wish you were here instead. I know that you are still my angel on my shoulder, and are looking out for me. I feel you with me all the time. I look at your picture, and just love that smile of yours. Take care, and I know that you will be waiting for me in your new home in heaven. Until we meet again, I love you with all my heart and soul. I know that Jason is thinking of you too, and one day we all be a family again. Love, Mom xoxoxo

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

My dearest Jeff, I want to wish you a very happy birthday. I am so very sorry that I was not able to come up and spend your birthday with you. I was very busy at work, and too many people were off, so I could not come up. You have to know how much I wanted to be with you. I promised you that I would not miss your birthday,and I broke my promise to you. Please forgive me. I remember the day that you were born. You were the light of my life. You came so fast. You were so big and cute. I can't believe that you are 32 today. It seems like yesterday that you were born. I love and miss you with all my heart. Take care Jeff, and Happy Birthday. Love, Mom xoxoxo

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, September 4, 2011

My dearest Jeff, Today you have been gone from us for six years.It seems like it was just yesterday that I got that horrible news that you were taken from us. I think about you every day. Today I went down to visit Jason and then I went up to be with you. Jason wished that he could have come with me, but he couldn't. I still asked you the same questions, why did you have to do this to you and to us. I guess we will never know that answer. I really could use a hug from you now. I am really going through some horrible times in my life, and it would have been a bit easier if you were here with me. I guess it is not our place to question God why he took you at such a young age. I bet he had a good plan for you. I know that we will be together again when I get to Heaven, and you and Opie will be there waiting for me and then you will give me that hug and kiss. Take care Jeff, and know that you are still loved and missed so much. I love you with all my heart, even though it is still broken into tiny pieces. Please keep giving me the strength and courage to do what I have to do now in my life. I can feel your presence all around me. I can even see that devilish smile of yours. Love you, Mom xoxoxoxo

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, December 25, 2009

My Dearest Jeff: Today is Christmas 2009. Today I will go up and visit with you on Christmas like the promise I made to you. I promised that you would never spend a holiday alone that God willing, I would always be with you. I intend to keep that promise to you as long as I am able. Today will be a hard day. You are not here and Jason is not here also. This past year has not been very good for me. I sure wish that you were here with me, to help ease the pain a little. I know that God needs you more, but it sure would have been great if you were here. The pain is easing abit every year that passes, but it will never go away. There is still that big hole that you left in my heart when you were taken away from me. I still ask myself why, but I don't think that I will ever have the real answer. Samantha & Marissa are giving me comfort and joy, but I can still remember all the fun we had when you were here, and we went up to Aunt Carol & Uncle Pell's house with Ma-Ma and we shared in the love on Christmas. That is all gone now, and sometimes the emptiness is bad, but we have to go on. You give me strength knowing that you are always around me with your spirit. You are always the angel on top of my christmas tree looking down on us and sending us your love. Take care my son, and know how much you are loved and missed everyday of the year. Be there waiting for me when I arrive and give me that big kiss and hug that I really need from you. Merry Christmas Jeff. ps, I will leave you some M&M's that you loved by your footstone. Love Mom xoxoxo

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Happy Birthday Jeff: I can't believe that today you would have been 30 years old. It seems just like yesterday that you were born. I can remember you arriving at 4:03 in the morning in the ambulance in front of your home. You couldn't wait to come into the world. You were so big and so cute. You made me so proud to have you for a son. I just wish that you were still here with me. I really need you now that Jason isn't around. I guess God had different plans for you in your new home in heaven. I am going to go up today to spend some time with you on your birthday. When I am with you send me a sign from above letting me know that you are with me. You should be here celebrating with your favorite chicken divan and a cake. But it wasn't meant to be. Tomorrow I am going to Florida. I remember when you took your first and only airplane ride to Florida. You were like a little boy. You were so excited. When I am up in the air, I will talk to you, because I am a bit closer to you up there. You be our guardian angel on the flight. You take care my son, and until someday we meet again, Happy Birthday Jeff. I miss you and love you with all my heart. Opie says happy birthday too. Love Mom xoxoxo Happy 30!!!

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, September 4, 2009

My dearest Jeff, I can't believe that you have been gone from me for 4 years. It seems just like yesterday. I did not have a good night last night. I was awake and reliving that most horrible time im my life. Every detail came back to me. Right now in my life, it is a terrible time for me without Jason and without you. Both of my sons are not with me. My heart is just breaking all over again. I know that Jason will be home soon, but you will never come home. I know that you are now in your new home in heaven, and are at peace, but it sure would be great to see you and to give you a big hug and kiss. There isn't a day that goes by that someone or something reminds me of you. When I see a landscapers truck, I just wish that you would be driving that truck. Or everytime I see a quad go by that just maybe it is you. I know in my heart that you are giving me a sign at that moment that you are with me. Know that I love and miss you so much. Yes, it has gotten a bit easier, but the real hurt and pain never goes away. I pray that we will be together again someday. Please be there waiting for me. Until that day comes, please be at rest, and keep being that angel on my shoulder. Please send Jason a sign from you also. He sure could use it. Take care my love, and I love and miss you with all my heart. Love Mom, and Opie

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, December 25, 2008

My dearest Jeff: I want to wish you a Merry Christmas. Today is a very very sad day for me. This is the first Christmas that I haven't spent with my two sons in 32 years. This is the hardest day for me. I can remember all the happy times we had on Christmas morning. You both would want to wake up at 4 o'clock in the morning to see what Santa had left you. It was such fun for everyone. Remember jumping in the wrapping paper that we would throw in the corner, and I would take a picture of you both. I can remember the last time you did it, you said, "Mom this is the last time, I am a bit old for this". This year, I have to go through the motions so that Samantha and Marissa have a happy day. They now do the jumping in the paper. Jason is in such turmoil now in his life. If you could send him down some much needed love from you, I know that he can change his life around. I miss you so much Jeff. I know that it has gotten a bit better, but it will never be the same without you here with us. I am going up to spend some time with you on Christmas. I made you that promise when you died that you would never be alone for a holiday, and I have kept that promise to you and will, as long as I am able. I really need you by my side and on my shoulder right now in my life. Please give me the strength and hope to get through this time. Take care Jeff, and know how much I love you and some day we will be together again in your new home in heaven. Merry Christmas 2008 Love and kisses, Mom and opie

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, October 5, 2008

My dearest Jeff: Yesterday was your 29th birthday. I went up to be with you on your birthday. I made a promise to you that I would spend every birthday and holiday with you so you are not alone. I was up there about 6:30 in the morning. I sat and talked to you and watched the sun come up. It was a beautiful sight, and I know that you were watching it with me. I was not able to write to you yesterday, but spending time with you was more important to me. I sure miss you so much Jeff. I can remember the day that you were born. It seemed like yesterday. I pray that you are at peace, and are still that angel on my shoulder. I will be with you again one day in your new home. You better be there waiting for me with open arms to hug me and a great big kiss. Happy Birthday Jeff. I love you. Mom xxoo

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Joan posted a condolence

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Jeff Today is your birthday. After 3 years you are missed as if it was yesterday. I pray you are peace. Happy Birthday Day sweet boy and may God be with you. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU JEFF. Love Joan

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big brother posted a condolence

Monday, September 8, 2008

jeff, i cant belive its been 3 years that you have been gone. i think about you all the time, i miss you so much wish you were here with all the family love your big brother

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, September 4, 2008

My dearest Jeff: Today you have been gone from us for three long years. It seems like just yesterday. It just doesn't seem real that you are gone. I can remember all the details so well. That was the worst day of my life when God took you away from me. They have been the 3 longest years of my life. Everyday I think of you and miss you so much. Today I am going up to be with you. I need to feel you close to me. I am always comforted when I am with you in the cemetery. I can feel you so much when I am close to you there. I know that you are at peace now. There was alot of turmoil in your life, and I know that you are at peace. I just wish that God had other plans for you, but he needed you up in heaven more than here on earth. I just wish that I had the chance to grow old with you, and to see you be a daddy and husband. I know that we will be together again when I meet you in heaven. You better be there to greet me, and give me a big hug and kiss. Until we are together again, please keep being my angel on my shoulder. The whole family misses you so much. Take care of me, and every now and then give me a little sign that you are with me. I love and miss you so much. Love Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Hi Jeff, it has been so long since I last wrote to you. I was not able to get onto the site for Easter. I did go up Easter morning to be with you. I left you a card and some easter candy. I sure miss you Jeff. The Holiday was real lonely here without you. I am redoing your room over. I hope you don't mind. I am going to have one whole wall dedicated to your memory. All the things that you loved to do in your life. I hope you are are peace now. My heart is still broken into such tiny pieces that will never mend. I wish that you were here with me and opie. I love you with all my heart and soul. Please be my angel on my shoulder so that I know you are always with me. Take care my sweet son, until we meet again in your new home. I love you, Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

My Dearest Jeff: Today is January 1, 2008. It was very sad not to hear your voice on New Year's Eve. You always called me to wish me a Happy New Year whereever you were. I am very glad that this holiday is over. It is always very hard not to have you here with us. You were the angel on the top of our tree. I went up to visit you on Christmas day and left you somethings. You are still very much missed down here. I wish I could have helped you in some way instead of seeing you suffer. I miss you and love you so much Jeff. It is hard to believe that you were not with us for three holidays. Know how much you are missed by everyone. Take care my son, until we meet again in your new home in heaven. I know that you welcomed Aunt Isabella into your home, and now your cousin Everett. Please be my guardian angel. I Love you Jeff, Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, November 22, 2007

My dearest Jeff: Today is Thanksgiving. This morning I went up to visit you. I promised you when you died that I would spend every holiday with you so you would not have to be alone. I kept that promise today. I was the only one in the cemetery, and the clouds were very white and puffy. You always loved to look at the clouds. I hope you know how much I love and miss you. The holidays are very hard for me without you here with us. Today Jason, Christy, Samantha and Marissa are coming over for dinner. There will always be an empty place at the time with you not with us. I know that you are here with us in spirit but boy does it still hurt so much. I told you today at the cemetery that I sold your quad to Jarrod. I hope you are not upset with me for doing that, but I know how much you loved it, and Jarrod did help you put it back together. I know everytime he rides it, you will definitely be his angel on board. Please send me your love and some signs to let me know that you are ok. I sure could use a big hug right about now, so please send me down one. Take care, and rest in peace, but know that my heart is still broke, and will never mend. Happy Thanksgiving Jeff, I love you with all my hear and soul. Until we meet again one day, I love you. Mom xoxoxo :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, October 4, 2007

My dearest Jeff. Today is your 28th birthday. I can still remember the night that you were born. You were so excited to come into the world, you came so fast. I can remember them telling me that you were perfect in everyway. You were and will continue to be the light of my life. Today, I went up to be with you on your birthday, I made you a promise that God willing, I will be with you every holiday that comes so you won't be alone. It was just you and me kiddo. No one else in the whole cemetery. The sky and clouds were beautiful. The day was horrible for me. I sure wish I was making you the chicken divan that you loved, and singing and celebrating your special day instead of sitting by your side in the cemetery. I left you a birthday card. I miss you so much Jeff, it still feels like someone cut my heart out, which will never heal. Please give me and Jason your strength to go on without you. Sure wish things could have turned out differently, but God had other plans for you. I know you are watching me from heaven and I can feel your spirit with me, but it sure isn't the same as a big old hug. Please rest in peace Jeff, and know that I miss and love you with all my heart. Until we meet in your new home in heaven, Happy Birthday, Love, Mom & Opie

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Joan posted a condolence

Thursday, October 4, 2007

Jeff, This is your 2nd Birthday you are not here. No matter how much time goes by you are missed deeply. Your Dad will always have an empty spot without you. There are times I imagine you are still here with us. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET BOY, MAY YOU REST IN PEACE. You are in my prayers always. I Love & miss you Joan

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your big brother posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

well tommrow is your birthday. its going to be a real sad day for the family. i cant belive you have been gone for over 2 years now. i still cant belive your gone. it really hurts me that we were the closest we have ever been as brothers and we were starting to be friends like all brothers should. i have been fishing on the norma k 3 a few times and every time i go out on that boat all i think about is all the fun we had that night. i wish you were to see my girls they are getting so big now mom see's then alot they keep her busy. miss you and love you jeff

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

My dearest Jeff: Today you have been gone from me for 2 long years. It just does not seem possible that I have not seen you for that long. I can still remember every detail of that horrible time in my life like it was just yesterday. Today, Jason and I are going up to be with you. Jeff, why did you have to do that to you and us. You knew how much I loved you and would miss you if anything would happen to you. You brought me such joy and pride just to have you for a son. I still miss you so much. Today is such a hard day for me. There isn't a day that goes by that you are not on my mind. Everytime I see a landscapers truck go by, I think of you and the last big job that you did, and you took pictures and came home to show me. The look of pride that was on your face just to know that you accomplished a great job. There is a red car that was exactly like yours that goes by our house every now and then, and I wish that it is you coming home, and walking into the house and yell, "are you cooking tonight?" I sure wish that I could answer you yes, and say that I am cooking for you. I go over, and over every detail of that day in my head. It was the worst day of my life that I will ever experience. Jeff, I watched you turn into a very handsome man, and I wanted you to become a great daddy to some little boy or girl and them be proud of you too. Unfortunately, God had other plans for you. I can't understand why he took you, but I know that he only takes the best, and you were the greatest Jeff. I hope you are at peace now and not in turmoil. Know that my love for you will last forever. I know that when I come to you, you will be waiting for me and take me in your arms and give me a big hug and kiss, and tell me how much you love me and missed me and to tell me how sorry you are for hurting me the way you did, and I will forgive you because I love you so much. Take care my sweet Jeff, love Mom and Opie :(

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mom posted a condolence

Sunday, April 8, 2007

My dearest Jeff. Today is Easter, and this morning I went up to visit with you. I promised you that I would spend every holiday with you so you wouldn't be alone. I miss you so much Jeff, my heart is still broken into tiny pieces, and I know that it will never mend. I keep asking myself why, and the I haven't gotten an answer yet as to why you did this to you and to us. Jay, Christy, Samantha and Marissa had dinner here with me, but it still seemed so empty without you here with us. I need a sign from you to let me know that you are at peace. Please come to me in a dream or let me feel your presence with me. I love and miss you with all my heart. Take care my son, rest in peace. Mom xoxoxo :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, March 9, 2007

My dearest Jeff. I haven't written to you in a long time. I just felt that I needed to be near you, and this is one way that I feel I can be near you. It has been a year and a half since I have seen your smiling face. The pain is still so hard for me to be without you. I still miss you so much it still hurts. I wish I could see you one more time, but I know that isn't possible here on earth, but when I meet you one day in heaven, I can give you that big hug and kiss and tell you how much I love you. Give me your strength and prayers to keep going on without you. I am going up tomorrow to visit with you. Know how much I miss you Jeff. It has been a long winter down here and cold. I hope you are resting in peace my sweet son and until we meet again one day, I love you with all my heart and soul. Love, Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, January 26, 2007

My dearest Jeff, today is a very cold night out, you loved this type of weather. Tonight, Mrs. Woelk and I went out to eat, and she told me that Deon and Jarred are going snowboarding tomorrow night. You should be here so you could go with them. You loved to snowboard. It is so very hard for me yet. I am trying to be strong, but sometimes it is just so hard without you. I miss you so much it still hurts. Please send me your love and strength because I really could use it. I have a new job Jeff, you would be proud of me. I am the secretary for the health officer. I am very happy, and I know that you would be happy for me too. I have joined a support group to help me cope without you here. It is a good group, so I really hope it helps me even though I know that nothing will ever be the same again without you here with me. Take care my son, and take care of me also. I love you with all my heart. Love Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, January 1, 2007

Happy New Year, Jeff. Last night I went over to the Woelk's house for New Year's Eve. Everyone was there but you. At the stroke of midnight, I sure wish that I could have wished you a happy new year in person, but I sent you a kiss. You always called me right after midnight where ever you went. You always thought of me on that night. I am so glad that the holidays are over, since they weren't very happy. I love you with all my heart and soul, and one day I can give you that hug and kiss and tell you in person how much I love you. Take care my sweet son, and keep giving me your strength. Happy New Year, Love, Mom and Opie

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, December 25, 2006

My dear Jeff, today is Christmas, but it isn't the same holiday anymore without you here. I went up to visit with you at the cemetery and left you a card and some m&m peanuts that you loved so much. Julia and Jarrod also visited you, and left you some flowers. Jeff, today is so hard for me. I am trying to be strong, but it isn't working. I miss you so much you can't even imagine the hurt I feel. I am going through the motions for Samantha & Marissa, but my heart isn't really in it. I put up a tree this year, and you are my angel on top of the tree. You are here in presence, but the greatest gift I could receive would be for you to walk through the front door, and yell, I'm home Mom. I know that isn't going to happen anymore, but it sure would be nice. Please give me your strength to go on without you. You are my angel at my side, and will always be until we meet again in heaven. I love you with all my heart and soul, Jeff. Merry Christmas. Love Mom & Opie

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your big brother posted a condolence

Monday, December 25, 2006

merry christmas jeff. i am sorry i have not wrote you in a while. i just got done spending time with my family. i remember when we were done with all the gifts we got we would put the wrapping paper in the corner and jump and wrestle in it. all of my kids did that today and i couldnt jump in there with them becaus it wouldnt of been the same without you in there.later we are going over to moms house its not going to be fun its a hard day for me. later me and the family are going up to visit you. i still cant belive your gone i miss you and love you so much it hurts so much.on wendsday i am going to get a tattoo of your foot stone on my arm. thats a good way for me to look down and remember you. i miss you bro i really do my whole family sends there love. i am taking care of mom the best i can but its really hard for me she is so sad and lonely with out you we all are. bye jeff

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, November 23, 2006

My dear Jeff, today is Thanksgiving, and it is the second year that you haven't been here with me on this holiday. This morning I went up to visit with you. There will never be a holiday that I won't be with you so you don't have to be alone. Today is not a very nice day, it is rainy and damp. I have a nice fire going in the fireplace, and I always think of you when I have it going. I always called you my pyromanic. You always made me very nervous with the size of the fire you made, and you would say, relax it's fine, just enjoy it. I really miss you so much Jeff, it isn't the same here anymore. My life isn't the same anymore. There is always that part of me that is always so sad. I hope you are at peace, and someday I will be with you and you can give me a big hug and kiss to welcome me to your new home. Take care my sweet son, and know how much I love and miss you, love Mom xoxoxo :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, November 6, 2006

My dear Jeff: I am sitting here at work, and I knew that I had to write to you. It has been awhile since I wrote to you last. Last weekend, I went up to visit you. I was the only one in the whole cemetery. It was just you and me together. The day was very windy, and cool, but refreshing. You should have seen the clouds, they were so close and puffy, I could have reached up and touched them. I felt your presence so strong that day. I sure wish I could see your face one more time, and give you a hug and a kiss. They say it gets easier, but I don't feel that way, at least not yet. The holidays are fast approaching, and I am getting nervous about them. They are so hard for me. You should be here with us so we can celebrate as a family. I pray for your strength and keep being my angel on my shoulder. I miss and love you with all my heart. It is still shattered into such tiny pieces that won't mend. Take care my son, and one day we will be reunited in your new home in heaven. Love, Mom :(

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your big brother posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 4, 2006

jeff, today is your birthday. today was a bad day for me and mom. i am sorry i didnt get up to see you today but my thoughts and prayers are always with you.i am trying to take care of mom its hard none of us will be the same without you. i miss you jeff. my whole family sends there love. i wish you were here to see my two girls you would of been a good uncle i know you would i love and miss you jeff i go out on the norma k 3 alot and i think about the last time we went out we had such a great time i felt really close to you for the first time in a long time and i will never forget that trip i promise.

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Mom posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 4, 2006

My dear Jeff, today is your 27th birthday. I can still remember the day you were born. You were the greatest gift I could have received. You brought me such joy to my life. God gave me two great sons, and you were a great son. Today Ronda and I went up to visit with you on your birthday. There has never been a year that I have not been with you, and as long as I live I will be with you on your special day. You should be here with us so I can make you your chicken divan that you loved so much and be celebrating your day. Instead you are in your new home in heaven and looking down on me and giving me a hug and a kiss. I miss you so much Jeff it hurts. Please give me your strength to go on without you. I pray you are at peace, but my heart is broken into such tiny pieces that it will never mend. Happy 27th Birthday Jeff, I love you so much, Love, Mom xoxoxo :(

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Joan posted a condolence

Wednesday, October 4, 2006

Jeff - A year has passed and today is your birthday. Life has not been the same since you passed. We miss your voice and your smiling face. I pray you are at peace. There will always be a void without you. Comfort your family in their dreams. I will always pray for you. Love Joan

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Aunt Carol posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Jeff...It has been a year since you have been gone.. We still wonder what happen that fateful night. What were you thinking, did you know the end was in sight? Did God come to you and say it was your time? And where you standing at the pearly gates in line, looking down at us all in tears, and wanting to come and calm all our fears.. And tell us you are in a place so safe, so beautiful, so calm.. A place where God can be seen... Jeff, are always in our hearts and in our thoughts... Your memories are our keepsake... Miss you guy.. Aunt Carol

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, September 4, 2006

My sweet son, today has been one year since you left us for your new home in heaven. It has been the worst year of my life. It is so lonely here without you. My life will never be the same again. The pain is still so unbearable. Today, Jay, Samantha, Marissa, Madison, Ronda and I went us to visit with you. We left you some flowers and Mrs. Sproch made you a beautiful arrangement. Jarrod and Julia went up to visit with you also and left you a quad that looks like yours. Everyone down here misses you so much. We all can't understand why you did that to yourself and to us. I miss that devilish smile of yours. I thought that by now the pain would start to go away, but it hasnt. I need you to wrap your arms around me and give me a big hug and tell me you are ok, and that I will be ok too, because right now I am not ok. I feel empty and lonely. Oh God, why did you have to make my Jeff away from me when I needed him. I know you only take the best and you were the best son a Mother could want. Please help Jay to get through this also. I hope you are at peace now my son, and all your pain is gone. I love and miss you with all my heart and soul, and one day we will be together again in your new home. Good night my son. Love, Mom xoxoxo :(

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your big brother posted a condolence

Monday, September 4, 2006

i cant belive its been a year already. you are really missed. i love you and wish we were able to start being brothers like we started to do on that fishing trip. i will never be the same without you i miss you love. your big brother jay

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Dad posted a condolence

Monday, September 4, 2006

Son, It has been 1 year today. It was a long hard day. Life is so empty with out you.

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Raine posted a condolence

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Jeff. . . I miss you more than ever and I think about you more than anything, I still feel youre by my side and you watch out for me I love you n miss you like CRAZY....youre the first thing that i think about when i wake up and the last when i go to sleep . . .its still just as hard for me and I hope that you will be there for me. . .love you forever

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Aunt Carol posted a condolence

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

THE BROKEN CHAINW WE LITTLE KNEW THAT MORINING THAT GOD WAS GOING TO CALL YOUR NAME.. IN LIFE WE LOVED YOU DEARLY, IN DEATH WE DO THE SAME.. IT BROKE OUR HEARTS TO LOSE YOU, YOU DID NOT GO ALONE; FOR PART OF US WENT WITH YOU, THE DAY GOD CALLED YOU HOME. YOU LEFT US PEACEFUL MEMORIES, YOUR LOVE IS STILL OUR GUIDE; AND THOUGH WE CANNOT SEE YOU, YOU ARE ALWAYS AT OUR SIDE.. OUR FAMILY CHAIN IS BROKEN AGAIN, AND NOTHING SEEMS THE SAME; BUT AS GOD CALLS US ONE BY ONE, THE CHAIN WILL LINK AGAIN... AUNT CAROL-UNCLE PELL AND PAMMY

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Mom posted a condolence

Friday, August 4, 2006

My dearest Jeff, today you have been gone from us for 11 months. It is just not possible that I haven't seen your face or heard your voice for that long. It seems like just yesterday that I lost you. I had a wonderful dream about you this past week. You gave me your hand, and it was so soft and warm, and you told me that you were warm and ok. I know that it was a sign from you telling me that you are ok, and you sending me your love. I still miss you so much you can't even imagine. Christy wrote me a wonderful poem that she said came from you through her. It was so beautiful. Please take care of me, and send me your strength and love to help me get through this first year without you. As times goes by, I know it will get easier or so they say, but the pain is so terrible. Please continue to be my angel on my shoulder so I know you are with me all the time. Rest in peace my son, and one day we will be together again, and you you can give me a big hug and kiss. I love and miss you. Love, Mom xoxoxo :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, July 4, 2006

My sweet Jeff, today you have been gone from me for 10 months. It just does not seem possible that I haven't seen that devilish smile of yours for that long. The pain is still so unbearable without you here with me. I go thru the motions, but my heart is not just the same any more. It is still broken into so many little pieces, and I know it will never mend. Please be my strength and my angel on my shoulder that I need now. Not a moment goes by that you are not in my thoughts and prayers. Your spirit lives on, just not you here in the flesh. Sometimes the pain and hurt are so unbearable for me. I know that Opie feels your loss also. He still goes upstairs sometimes and just walks around your room. I pray that you are at peace my son, and one day we will be together again. I love you and miss you with all my heart and soul. Love, Mom xoxox

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, June 5, 2006

My dear Jeff, yesterday you were gone from us for 9 long months. I went up to visit you on Sunday and I was the only one in the whole cemetery. I had a nice time visiting with you. I watered all the plants and they have turned your footstone so now you can see it better. It was a nice day just to spend time with you and do alot of talking to you. It still is so lonely here without you. I love you with all my heart and I miss you more each day that passes. I sure miss that smile of yours. I have made a scrapbook in your memory. It is your life from beginning to end. It is everything that you loved doing. It is a real tribute to you. Rest in peace my son, and someday we will be together again. Love, Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, May 15, 2006

Dear Jeff, yesterday was Mother's Day, and it was not a good day for me. I sure wish you were here with me. It just wasn't the same this year. I went up to your room and sat there for a longtime just to be close to you. I could feel your presence with me. I remember last year how you took me to the Longhorn Steak House for dinner. There was a little wait, and you didn't want to wait, but I begged you to stay and we were glad we stayed. It was just the two of us, and it was so special, we had the best time ever. I will remember that Mother's Day forever. Remember how much I love you and miss you. Take care my son. Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, May 4, 2006

My sweet son. Today has been 8 months since I have seen your smiling face. It has been such a hard time for me. I still don't understand why. Why did you have to do that to yourself, and leave me. It has been so lonely here without you. On Saturday, Ronda, Madison & I went up and visited you and planted some flowers for you, Ma-Ma and Grandpa. I know you would have been proud of our work. It was such a beautiful day, and the clouds were so close you could have touched them. I know you were watching me from above, and I could feel you wrap your arms around me and tell me that I will be ok, and that you are always by my side to watch out for me and give me your strength to go on without you. Please be my angel that I need on my shoulder. I can still feel your presence at the house, but it sure isn't the same as you being here. Take care, and I hope and pray that you are at peace now. I love you with all my heart even though it is still broken and will never mend. I love you Jeff, Mom :(

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RAINE posted a condolence

Wednesday, April 26, 2006

JEFF. . . TODAY WOULD BE ONE YEAR SINCE I FIRST MET YOU ... I REMEMBER LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY.... SEEING YOUR SMILING FACE I WILL NEVER FORGET THAT DAY.... I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY DAY AND I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE.... I WENT TO VISIT YOU ON MONDAY AS DAYS GO ON IT HURTS EVEN MORE BUT IVE BEEN STRONG... I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.... XOXO

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Aunt Carol posted a condolence

Monday, April 10, 2006

May rainbows color your days and angels guide your path.... I will always keep you in my heart... Aunt Carol

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, April 4, 2006

Jeff, today you have been gone from me for 7 months. It has been the longest 7 months of my life. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you, and miss you with all my heart. You should be here with us, and not at your new home in heaven. I look at my yard, and wish that you were here to take care of it. Why, Why, Why, I still don't understand how you could have done that to yourself. You had so much to live for. You had your whole life to live, but I guess it was not in God's plan for you. I know they say that he takes only the good, and you were the best. Please send me your strength that I need to go on without you. I love you with all my heart, and miss you so much. Rest in peace my sweet son. Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, March 27, 2006

My dearest Jeff, yesterday Jason, Samanatha, Marissa and I went up to visit you. Your footstone has been put into place. Jeff, it was very hard for me to see that, some how it made it feel actually real, even though I know you are gone. You would love it, I know. It is you standing by the edge of a lake fishing, and you are catching a big one. I know how much you loved to fish, it is a final tribute to you and your passion for fishing. I really hope you are finally at peach now, even though my heart is still broken into tiny pieces that will never mend. There isn't a moment that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. Please continue to give me your strength to come to accept this. You were and will always be my precious little boy who was such a joy to be around. Sure miss that little devilish smile of yours, what I wouldn't give to see it just one more time. Someday we will be together again and I will see it. Well, please take care of yourself, and please be that angel on my shoulder. I love you, Mom xoxo

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Raine posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 8, 2006

Did I disappoint you or let you down? Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown? So I took what's mine by eternal right. Took your soul out into the night. It may be over but it won't stop there, I am here for you if you'd only care. You touched my heart you touched my soul.You changed my life and all my goals.And love is blind and that I knew when,My heart was blinded by you. I've kissed your lips and held your head.Shared your dreams and shared your bed.I know you well, I know your smell.I've been addicted to you. I am a dreamer but when I wake, You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take.And as you move on, remember me,Remember us and all we used to beI've seen you cry, I've seen you smile.I've watched you sleeping for a while.I'd spend a lifetime with you.I know your fears and you know mine.We've had our doubts but now we're fine,And I love you, I swear that's true.I cannot live without you. And I still hold your hand in mine. In mine when I'm asleep. And I will bear my soul in time, When I'm kneeling at your feet..-JB I miss you greatly. . . and there isn't a day that passes that you aren't on my mind. It's been 6 months and I miss you more than ever. . .you were my first love and nothing will change that. . .Just hope you are taking care of all of us that are here and missing you..... love you with all my heart and soul. . . xoxo*

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Ronda posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 7, 2006

Hey Handsome, I can't believe it's been 6 months since you left us. It will be 1 Year ago this month that we took our family vacation and went to Florida. WOW!! I remember planning it and you were so excited. We miss you soooo much! Deon and Jarad went up to New York State this weekend, you loved that place. They went on the quads and traveled the trails you loved so much! Maddie still talks about you everyday and sleeps with the dolphin you brought her along with your baby blanket that your mom gave her.Not a day goes by I don't think about you. I miss your smile and that grin of yours, I miss hearing your voice, I miss holding you , and talking to you, but most of all I miss you making me laugh, you always said you loved to see me smile and you ALWAYS made me smile. I Love you Baby and I miss you!

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Mom posted a condolence

Saturday, March 4, 2006

My dearest Jeff: Today has been a real hard day for me. You have been gone from me for 6 long months. They say it will get easier, but it hasn't so far. I still miss you as much today as I did the day you died. The pain is unbearable without you here. Today I went up to your room to be near you, all your things are just the way you left them, I can feel your presence when I am up there with you. Friday was a very hard day for me, I donated your car to a charity, please forgive me. I know how much you loved that car, but I couldn't keep it. Jeff, please give me the strength I need to get through this. Tomorrow, Jason, Samantha & Marissa and I are going up to visit you. I hope you are at peace now my sweet son. I love you with all my heart, even though my heart is still broken and will never mend. Rest in peace my sweet son, I love you so much. Mom xoxo

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your brother posted a condolence

Monday, February 27, 2006

jeff i just wanted to write to you to tell you i am thinking about you.i cant belive you have been gone for 6 months already. things without you around are not the same. i miss going up in your room smoking cigarettes with you. that really the only time we really talked. i wish we were closer. but its to late now you will always have a place in my heart. i miss you jeff i love you.

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

My dearest Jeff: Today is Valentine's Day and I wanted to tell you how much I love and miss you. On Saturday, Ronda, Madison & I went up and gave you some cards and balloons. You were and will continue to be the light of my life. I miss you so much Jeff. I pray that you are at peace now, and please continue to give me the strength to go on without. The house is so lonely without you. I can still feel your presence all around me. I go up to your room to feel close to you. The pain is still so real it hurts so much. No mother should have to go through losing a child. It is the worst hurt in the world. There is still such a big hole in my heart which I know will never heal. I love you so much Jeff. Happy Valentine's Day. Love, Mom

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Ronda and Maddie posted a condolence

Monday, February 13, 2006

BABY, IT'S BEEN TO LONG WITHOUT YOU! TOM IS VALENTINES DAY! WE SPENT SO MANY OF THOSE TOGETHER! YOU WERE MY LIFE AND LOVE FOR 7 YEARS AND YOU'LL BE IN MY HEART FOREVER! I NEED YOU SO MUCH! I NEED YOU TO HELP ME, GIVE ME STRENTH TO BE STRONG FOR YOUR MOM AND MADDIE AND ME! I DREAM ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME AND I CAN FEEL YOUR ARMS AROUND ME TIGHT JUST HOLDING ME AND TELLING ME YOU LOVE ME, PLEASE GIVE YOUR MOM A BIG HUG, SHE NEEDS ONE. COME DOWN AND VISIT MADDIE SHE TALKS ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME SHE MISSES YOU SOO MUCH AND I DON'T THINK SHE KNOWS HOW TO DEAL WITH LOSING YOU OF ALL PEOPLE, YOU WERE HER DADDY ALWAYS, SINCE DAY ONE YOU STUCK BY OUR SIDES AND I LOVE YOU MORE AND MORE EVERY DAY FOR THAT!!! I MISS YOU SOO MUCH BABY! THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE AND LOVING ME UNCONDITIONALLY! I WISH THINGS DIDN'T END THE WAY THEY DID, WE HAD SOO MANY PLANS FOR OUR FUTURE TOGETHER. I WISH SO MUCH WE HAD STAYED IN FLORIDA IN MARCH WHEN WE WENT, IT IS THE BEST MEMORY I HAVE OF THE THREE OF US TOGETHER , YOU AND MADDIE BONDED SO MUCH!! I'LL NEVER FORGET YOUR FACE AND SMILE ON YOUR FIRST PLANE RIDE AND YOUR FIRST TIME AT SEAWORLD. I'LL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU TEACHING MADDIE "GET ER DONE" AND THE TWO OF YOU SCREAMING IT THROUGH THE WHOLE PARK ALL DAY!!! AND YOU TEACHING HER TO DRIVE I KNOW SHE WILL REMEMBER THAT AND YOU FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE. YOU WERE THE LIGHT OF OUR LIVES THROUGH GOOD AND BAD, GOD KNOWS WE HAD PLENTY OF THOSE! BUT WE MADE IT THROUGH THEM ALL, WE WERE SOUL MATES BABY BOTH YOU AND I KNOW THAT AND I THINK EVERONE WHO KNEW US KNEW THAT. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER! NEVER SAY GOODBYE, AND I NEVER WILL SO GOODNIGHT FOR NOW!! XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO, RONDA AND MADDIE

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your big brother posted a condolence

Wednesday, February 8, 2006

just wanted to write to tell you i was thinking about you.i cant belive it has been 5 months already.i still cant belive it. i will never forget that day when i got the call from mom telling me you were dead. i keep hearing that phone call in my head. its hurts inside knowing we were getting closer and now your gone i miss you jeff and just to tell you christy and i had another baby girl she is so cute i wish you were here to see her. i miss you so much jeff love jason

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Mom posted a condolence

Saturday, February 4, 2006

My dearest Jeff: Today you have been gone from me for 5 months. It has been the longest 5 months I have ever had to endure. The pain from losing you is still so terrible. There isn't a moment that goes by that I don't miss you. I still miss that devilish smile of yours. Please continue to give me the strength to go on. You have a new little niece, her name is Marisa Lynn Bough. She is so cute, you would love her I know. I need you to do something for me. Nancy Nadeau is coming up to heaven to be with you. Please wrap your arms around her and welcome her. She won't be in any more pain now. I need you to wrap your arms around me also, and tell me that I will be ok, because I don't feel ok. Jeff, I love you more than you ever knew. Please take care of me and give me your strength to go on. I miss you so much Jeff. I love you with all my heart, love Mom :(

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Mom posted a condolence

Monday, January 9, 2006

Dearest Jeff: I am sitting here thinking of you, and had to write. It is so lonely here tonight without you. Why Jeff, why? I still don't understand. I know that you were here with me on Saturday night, I heard your footsteps upstairs. I didn't go up, I thought you might need some time alone up there. I don't know if you have crossed over yet, or if you are still here with me. Jeff, I still miss you so much it hurts. Know that I think of you every minute of the day. I still can see your little smile you would give me. Sure wish I could see it one more time. Continue to help me, because I can't do it alone. Everytime little Samantha comes into the house, I show her your picture, and she kisses you. I ask her where Uncle Jeff is, and she points right to your picture. I want her to know her uncle. You would have loved to play with her I know. You take care sweet one. I love you with all my heart and soul. Mom xoxo :(

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Aunt Carol posted a condolence

Thursday, January 5, 2006

Beside your grave we Always stand, we try So hard to understand The tears in our eyes We can brush away, But the ache in our hearts Will always stay.. We miss you more than Anyone knows, each Day that passes the Emptiness grows... We laugh, we cry, we play the part, beneath it all lies a broken Heart.. You can't come back we know It's true, but someday we will come to you Love you Jeff...your Aunt Carol

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Tara Siehl/Low posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 3, 2006

Dear Jeff, Just wanted to say how much your missed You will never be forgotten, and always remembered for brightening every room you walked into.Please help your family get through this new year with strength.Give them the love and warmth from above through every holiday. Hope to visit you soon Peace, Love & Hope of Happiness xoxox Tara Siehl/Low

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your big brother posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 3, 2006

jeff i just wanted to write to tell you i was thinking about you. i went up to see you on christmas it was so hard for me to do. but i feel alot better that i went up to see you.2005 was the worst year in my life between losing you and all the mess going on in my life.i just hope it gets easier dealing with things. its been real hard for me.do me a favor and please send me and the family some strengh we all need it.we are having a tough time with out you jeff i miss you little brother love jay

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, January 1, 2006

Happy New Year my sweet son. It was the first New Year's Eve that I didn't hear from you. Wherever you were, you always picked up the phone after midnight and wished me a Happy New Year. What I wouldn't give to have heard your voice last night. I just hope and pray that this year will get easier for me. I still pray for your continued strength to help me get through this. I still miss you so much Jeff. This whole holiday season was terrible for me without you. Jason still feels your loss too. I wish you were still here with us, but I know you are up in heaven and are looking down on us. Take care of yourself my precious son. I love you with my whole heart. Jason sends his love also. Love, Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

My dearest Jeff: Sunday was Christmas day, but I couldn't get to the website to write you a letter. I want to start by saying Merry Christmas my sweet boy. On Christmas morning, Jason, Dad, Joan and I came up and spent quite a bit of time with you on our first Christmas without you. I was very proud that Jason was able to come up, it was very hard for him, but he was glad that he came. I left you a card and a reindeer. We hung up your stocking just like we always did, and Santa left you a box, and inside the box was a whole lot of kisses for you to last through the year. It was very hard and painful for us not to have you here with us, but we know you were watching us from up in heaven and you were here in spirit. I still miss you so much Jeff. I hope you are at peace now, and will continue to give me the strength to go on without you. Know that I love and miss you so much my sweet son. With all my love, Mom

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your big brother posted a condolence

Sunday, December 18, 2005

jeff i miss you so much. i still cant belive your gone. i think about you quite often. and get so sad inside. i have still not been up to your grave i think it would to hard to me to deal with now. but someday i will be strong enough to come visit you. i miss you bro and i wish you were still around so we can have a chance to be brothers. i love you little brother love jason

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, December 4, 2005

My dearest Jeff: Today you have been gone from me for 3 months. They have been the 3 worst months of my life. Why Jeff, why? Not a day goes by that I ask myself, why did you have to leave me. Yesterday, Madison, Ronda, and I went up and put a wreath on the headstone. We are trying to make it look nice for you. This is such a hard time in my life, and I need your strength to get through this horrible time. Please Jeff I need to feel your presence with me. This is supposed to be a happy time of the year, and the thought of celebrating Christmas without you is too much to bear. I know you might be a bit angry that I am not going to celebrate, but I can't Jeff. Please try and understand, but my pain is still so terrible and the thought of being happy would not be what I would be feeling. I still miss you so much Jeff. Know that my love for you is so strong. I have little Samantha to take my mind off of things for a bit, but you are never out of my mind for long. I love you with all my heart, Jeff. Take care and please take care of me, I can't do it alone. I love you Jeff, Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, November 24, 2005

Dearest Jeff: Today was Thanksgiving. It was the first time in 26 years that we were not together as a family. Today it snowed for the first time and I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to come up and be with you. The roads were fine so Samantha and I came up to visit with you. We left you a rose and a card. Today was the hardest day for me without you here with us at the dinner table. I know you were here in spirit with us, but it still wasn't the same. I need you to give me all the help you can to get me through this. They say it will get easier, but it still feels like someone took a knife and cut out my heart, it is so broken. You can't even imagine the pain I am still in from losing you. Oh Jeff, why did you have to leave me. I ask God for the strength also, but nothing is working. Please take care of me, I can't do it alone. I love you with all my heart. Love, Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, November 13, 2005

To my dearest Jeff: Today I went up to visit you. The day was so beautiful, and the clouds were close and so puffy, you would have loved them. The name Bough has been engraved on our headstone so now people will know where you are resting in peace. I keep asking why you had to leave me, and I don't have the answers yet. You meant the world to me. You will never know the hurt and ache I still feel with you gone. Today I went up to your room and I can still smell your presence so strong. I sat and talked to you for a long time, and by my side was opie who misses you too. I ask you to please help me get through this because sometimes it is unbearable. I know you are here with me in spirit, but I would love to see your face and to kiss you and tell you one more time how much I loved you. Please take care sweet one, and know how much you are missed. I love you with all my heart and soul Jeff. Love, Mom

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monique posted a condolence

Friday, November 4, 2005

boobear, i think of you always, i wish you were here. i miss you and love you !i visit you on your bday ! i left you a white rose and ciggerette for you ! i hoped you enjoyed it ! i miss you so much ! love you always! monique..xoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxo.. pleaes take care of your mother and make her strong !

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Raine... posted a condolence

Friday, November 4, 2005

Oh boy.... how I miss you so...today is 2 months and I went to visit you....I did my best to clear the leaves away, but there were a lot... and im sure more are going to just blow back.... but at least it was nice for the day...its the thought that counts :0)... Im doing my best to stay strong just please give me the strenght to make it through each day....i can't put into words how much I miss you..."I just wanna squeeze you!"-we use to say that to each other all the time and give big hugs.....i just hope you're looking out real good for your mom....we both miss you more than anyone could imagine....i love you and miss you more than anything xoxoxo

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Mom posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 2, 2005

Dearest Jeff, I was sitting here thinking of you and wishing you were here with me. I still can't believe you are gone from me. It has been 2 months since I have seen your face. The pain is still so unbearable without you. I look at your pictures and remember all the good times we had together. You had so much to look forward to in your life. I know you never meant for this to happen, it was a terrible accident that went horribly wrong. Know that I miss you and love you with all my heart. I hope you are resting in peace now. You are in peace, but my heart is broken and shattered. I know it will get a little easier, but I will never be the same without you. Please give me the strength to get through each and every day you are not here with me. I love you so much, and be that angel on my shoulder that I need. I love you Jeff, love Mom

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, October 23, 2005

My dearest Jeff. Today you have been gone 7 weeks, and it seems like an eternity. I still feel your presence, but it isn't the same. I wish I could tell you one more time that I love you, and hear your footsteps coming through the front door. I know that you knew how much I loved you, but I would give anything just to let you know in person. I wish things could have been different, but it is out of my hands now, you are with God in heaven, and I know he is taking good care of you. You were and will always be my precious little boy who grew in the most handsome man I knew. Please give me the strength to get through each and every day I am without you. I love you with all my heart. Love, Mom xoxo

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Raine posted a condolence

Thursday, October 20, 2005

Jeff... well I was just thinking about you...ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT YOU....but I just wanted to let you know how much I miss you...there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you....Love you

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your big brother posted a condolence

Monday, October 17, 2005

jeff, i am sorry i missed writing to you on your birthday. i still cant belive your gone. its not fair you were to young. you had your whole life ahead of you. i wish you were able to talk to me and tell me what was going on in your life. you know i would of tried to help you. jeff i love you so much and i miss you i wish we would be able to go blue fishing a lot more times.at least we got to hang out one more time before you left us. i will never for get that day as long as i live i promise you jeff.love your brother jay

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Joan posted a condolence

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Jeff, We miss you! Yesteray your Dad planted Daises in our front yard in memory of you. It is so hard for him but each day he moves on. Your Mom and Dad are always in my prayers and you sweet boy I pray you are at Peace. Love Joan

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, October 9, 2005

Dear Jeff, I was sitting here thinking of you and wanted you to know how much I still miss you. I wish you were here with me and opie, it is so lonely. The other night I had my first dream about you, you were so handsome in the dream and you looked at peace. I just wish you had come to me so I could have helped you in some way. You were and will always be the light of my life. I love you with all my heart, and I hope Ma-Ma is taking good care of you. Take care sweet Jeff, I love you, Mom xoxo

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Tara & Lillian Siehl/Low posted a condolence

Sunday, October 9, 2005

Happy Birthday Jeff, Missing you and loving you always. XOXOXOX Tara Siehl& Baby Lilly We sent kisses I know they reached you I felt you smiling down on that beautiful day. peace,Love & happiness always Tar

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Raine posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

Jeff....Well let me start off by saying Happy Birthday! The sun was out and it was perfect weather.. the clouds where out and they were beatiful. I remember the days you would call me and tell to look outside at the sky because of clouds... you loved things like that . You know what it was the little things like that, that made me fall in love with you.You would have been so proud of me babe, I did a little landscaping... Hope you like the flowers. Your Mom and I had a wonderful day together... I know you're looking down on us and smiling. I am doing the best I can right now to be strong, but it's REALLY hard...everything I do and everything I see reminds me of you... as time passes I know it will get easier. I just hope you have a wonderful birthday, just wish that you were here to spend it with us.ALWAYS THINKING OF YOU...LOVE AND MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY!XOXO

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

Dear Jeff, we just got back from being with you on your birthday. We cleaned the straw from the new grass that was planted. Raine and I know that we are not the expert in this field, you were, but we tried our best. It was such a beautiful day, the clouds were so close, you could almost touch them. Raine planted some pretty flowers. She thought that you might be smiling down on her and know that she was getting her hands dirty for you. I know that you were with us, I could feel you wrap your arms around me and tell me that you are ok now, and that I would be ok soon too. We talked of all the fun times we had with you. See Jeff, I do like Raine, I never got to really know her when you were here with us, but I am looking out for her now. She is really hurting, but try to give her the strength that she needs to go on without you also. I hope that Ma-Ma is with you on this special day, and she is looking out for you. I love you Jeff, and you will always be in my heart. Happy Birthday my precious little boy!! Love, Mom

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Dad posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

Dear Jeff Just a few words for you on your birthday. We all miss you so much. At times the suffering from your loss is unbearable. I know that you would want us to get on with our lives. It will never be the same without you.Your spirit will always be with us. The sorrow will pass but your memory and warm smile will always be in our hearts. Happy birthday son. Your loving Dad.

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Mom posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

My dearest precious Jeff. Today 26 years ago, I gave birth at 3:41 am to the most beautiful baby boy. You couldn't wait to come into the world, you came so fast, you were born in the ambulance in front of your home. For 26 years, I watched you grow from the cutest little boy into the most handsome man on earth. You and Jason were my whole world. It was always the three of us together, never apart. You were the light of my life. You made me smile with that devilish smile you would give me. I can still hear you saying, "Are you cooking tonight?" I wish I could make you the chicken divan that I always made you on your birthday. Today Raine and I are going to spend the day with you. It is supposed to be a beautiful day, and there is no other place I would be but at your side on your birthday. Jeff, know that I miss you still so much, and love you more each day you are gone. Life is so empty without you here. Plese help me mend my broken heart Jeff. Give me the strength to go on without you. You had so much going for you, I just wish you didn't leave me to go to your new home in heaven. I still feel your presence with me, but it isn't the same. Happy Birthday Jeff, I Love You! Mom & Opie xoxoxo

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MONIQUE posted a condolence

Tuesday, October 4, 2005

BOOBEAR, JUST WANTED TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! AND I'M THINKING OF U ON THIS DAY !I MISS U VERY MUCH , AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART ALWAYS!I LOVE U JEFF AND I KNOW U KNOW U THAT! LOVE MONIQUE

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Mom posted a condolence

Sunday, October 2, 2005

My dearest Jeff, I can't believe that you have been gone for a whole month. I have never been away from you for more than 2 weeks. They tell me that it will get better, but it is still so hard for me to believe that you are not here with me. I still miss you so much, I know that you have been here with me. I heard your footsteps upstairs, and opie and I went running up to see you. I knew you were there with us at the moment, I felt your presence so strong. Know that I love and miss you so much. I ask for strength from you so I may go on without you. You will always be my little boy. I love you so much, Mom

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Opie posted a condolence

Thursday, September 15, 2005

Jeff, I can't believe you aren't here with us. I miss you petting me, and taking me for a ride in your car occasionally, and coming to look for me when I escaped from the yard. I look out the window for you to come home, but you never do. I go upstairs and lay outside your door to be close to you. I miss you Jeff, Love Opie PS I will take care of Mommy since you are not here and will keep her safe.

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Your Loving Mom posted a condolence

Thursday, September 15, 2005

My dearest Jeff. You were the light of my life. The day you were born, you gave me such meaning to my life. You always brought me such joy, with your little devilish smile. I never got to tell you that I loved you one more time, but I know that you knew how much I loved you. I have such a big hole in my heart with you not here in the flesh, but I know that you are looking down on me, and will always be here in spirit. I have to believe that you are in a better place, and you are not in turmoil now. You and Ma-Ma will be together for ever now, and I know that someday I will be with you again. I love you with all my heart and soul. I won't say goodbye, but will say I will be with you again one day. I Love You, Jeff Mom

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Harry Kobritz posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Joe and Family - My heartfelt condolences on this tragic loss. May you and your family find peace in time. Harry Kobritz Couristan

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Sabrina Hall posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

To: Joe and Joan Just a quiet word to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. God Bless

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Sandra Newsome posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Sarah Diaz posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Dear Joe: There are no words of comfort for the loss of a child. Trust in The Lord, He'll get you through! Just don't shut yourself away from everyone. Continue to mourn but with family and friends. Our prayers are with you. Love, Sarah

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Helene Moyik posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Martha Freay posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

My pray are with you in these hard moments.

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DAVIDA MARTIN posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

MY FAMILY'S THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU TODAY AND THE LONG DIFFICULT ROAD AHEAD. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND LOVE DAVIDA MARTIN

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shant minassian posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Dear Joe, I am very sorry to hear about your son. hang in there.

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Ellen Simpler posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

My heart is with you. Love, Ellen

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LYNN DE CUICEIS posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME LOVE LYNN

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EBONY DUNCAN posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

I UNDERSTAND HOW IT HURTS WHEN YOU LOOSE SOMEONE SO CLOSE SO SUDDENLY...BUT JUST KNOW, THERE IS A BRIGHT LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL. YOUR FAMILY IS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

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Donyale Clark posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

I would like to offer my condolences to Joe and his family. I will pray that god will continue to watch over you and walk with you in your time of despair. May god continue to bless you.

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Monica & Jose Colon (Rivers) posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 14, 2005

Joe, words cannot express how we feel about your loss at this time. Please know taht we will always be here for you and your family... Please let us know if there is anything that you need now and in the future.... We love you always. Monica and Jose

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Sally, Tony and Christopher Salerno posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 13, 2005

Jeff, you will be missed dearly. We pray that you are at peace now. God Bless the Bough family and give them strength to get thru this heartbreaking time.

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your big brother (jay) posted a condolence

Monday, September 12, 2005

jeff i just wanted to say i miss you so much bro. i tried to reach out to you as a brother and a friend but you kept saying you were fine. i wish you were. i am so glad we got to go fishing i will never forget that day in my life. and you were the only one that caught somthing. i wish we were able to spend some more time together. but someday we will be together jeff i will always love and miss you love you brother jason

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Marge or Mrs. W. (as Jeff would say) posted a condolence

Sunday, September 11, 2005

Jeff, you are like one of my own. We talked and laughed a lot, and I will miss that. Thanks for being such a good friend to Deon. He even got you to try a lot of his cooking, which you actually liked. I hope you caught all those tears that were shed for you so you can start a fish pond in heaven. Have it ready for all your friends fully stocked with trout and bass. We will all meet up with you again one day. Love you, Mr. & Mrs. W.

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Deon and Ally posted a condolence

Sunday, September 11, 2005

We love Jeff very much and always will. The Bough family a special place in our hearts. We have had so many memories with Jeff that we don't know where to begin. So we'll just say that we remember his smiling face wearing those sunglasse everytime we saw him. We know and believe that Jeff is watching over us and we have already had many signs from him. Jeff will live on through his stories of life by his family and friends. We will never forget him, and we love him and his family very much.

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Sal and Cathy Fichera posted a condolence

Friday, September 9, 2005

Joe our hearts go out to you. You will be in our prayes and at your side. Your Delaware Family.

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Stephanie Gruskin posted a condolence

Friday, September 9, 2005

I WANTED TO OFFER MY CONDOLENCES, AND SAY THAT I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR TRAGIC LOSS. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!

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Joan posted a condolence

Friday, September 9, 2005

Jeff - You were part of ours hopes, dreams and laughter. Losing you leaves a void in our hearts. We know you have reunited with your Grandfather Hoey and you are at peace. Thank you for all the Joy you have placed in my heart. I will never forget your gentle eyes or your boyish ways. I will miss you Jeff and will love you always.

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Jessie Ullman posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

Over the past few months that i've known Jeff, we became pretty close. ...still cant believe he took me fishing for the first time...and even after he started dating my best friend he would always make it a point to have a "Jessie fix" during his lunch breaks or whenever he could...he was such a good person and so good to Raine. I will always thanks him for bringing a smile to her face. Jeff, u will be greatly missed and loved by so many people. If you only could see how many people love and care about you...My thoughts and prayers are with the Bough Family

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Raine Lynch posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

"I still hear your voice when you sleep next to me.I still feel your touch in my dreams. Forgive me my weakness, but I don't know why. Without you its hard to survive.Cause every time we touched I get this feeling and every time we kissed I swear I could fly. Can't you feel my heart beat fast I want this to last, need you in my life.Your arms are my castle your heart is my sky. You wipe away tears that I cry. The good and the bad times we've been through them all, You make me rise when I fall." LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING! YOU'RE IN MY HEART FOREVER.GOD BLESS

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Dana Laudati posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

Jeff I am going to miss you. You were my first crush and my heart will always hold a special place for you. I know were you are now is a much better place then here. God rest your soul. To the Bough family Jeff was such a big part of my life growing up. I will never forget all the memories we shared. Jeff was such a wonderful person. My heart and prayers go out to you. Know that he will always be around you and a part of us.

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Mandy Fulford (Librizzi) posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

My thoughts, prayers and condolences to Jeff's family. I pray God helps you get through this tough time. Thinking of you all, Mandy

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Ginger Hoey posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

Patsy, Joe & Jason: You are in my heart and prayers today and always! I wish I could be their with you today. Please remember Jeff is in a much better place. He's in that fishing pond in the sky and looking down on you with love in his heart.

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Barbara J. Gaschler posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

My love and prayers are with everyone during this time. Please remember to keep your faith and trust in God and He will truly see each of you threw.

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Jill Norton posted a condolence

Thursday, September 8, 2005

Alls I know is that Jeff put a smile on my sisters face everyday and her face was always glowing ever since she met Jeff.You were such a kind person and you had a big impact on Raine.My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bough family. Love Always, Jill

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Tara & Lillian Siehl/Low posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Jeff My thoughts an prayers are with you and your family.To Ms.Bough theres two kinds of people in life theres love receivers(takers) never returning the great feelings that come to them and then there are people like Jeff that are able to receive & give & give some more. For that I Love and Thank Him for he is a special person. His smile could brighten any room with no effort, that friendship I will carry with me always for anywhere Jason Baw. & Jeff were I was. I live far away but know my thoughts an love is with the family and the friends we grew up with We can all be thankful for the greatness Jeff shed upon our lives for it's those great childhood memories in lk. hiawatha that get me through everyday. It's been a true blessing having your son in my life and the memories. PEACE,Love & Hope Tara Siehl/Low & Lilly Ps. Jeff thank you & thanks for trying to teach me how to iceskate I never did learn but how very patient you were with me always, XOXOXo Tar

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Raine Lynch posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Walking up your stairs and seeing your smiling face was the highlight of my day.You made me such a better person and I thank god that you came into my life.You and I experenced so many things together,you got me to try new things(I even got a little dirty) since I was such a "city girl" and I thank you for that.You will ALWAYS be in my heart and soul. I will love you always and forever. My heart and prayers go out to Patsy,Joe,Jason,and Opie.God Bless.

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Christine Langen & Eric Roosma posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. May God keep you strong and watch over you through this difficult time.

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mary ann and bill cohen posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO PATSY,JOE AND JASON.WITH GOD YOU WILL FIND COMFORT. LOVE,JOE'SHATTERAS FAMILY

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DONNA BRYDSON posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS TERRIBLE TIME. I LOST A DAUGHTER AND ONLY TIME MAKES THINGS BETTER. MAY GOD BLESS YOU DONNA BRYDSON (JARRODS AUNT)

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Tracy & Joyce Gaida posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

18 years we watched Jeff walk in & out of our front door always smiling no matter what, even while Barney was trying to eat him. Losing him basically means losing a brother & a second son. He will always be with us no matter what. Our thoughts are with his family in their time of need. Love Alwyz & Forever, Tracy & Joyce

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Cindy Tillawi posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

From Waleed & Cindy Patsy, May the Strength of God be With you Always. You have our Deepest Sympathy. I will always rememeber Jeff with a smile on his face and always so kind and friendly. Love, cindy & Waleed

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The Barch's posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

No words can express the sorrow that is felt for all of you at this time. Please know our Sorrow, Prayers and Love are with all of you at this time.

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Monique Sutlovich posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

boo bear, i will miss u very much . you were a great friend to me , and i love u for that ! im gonna miss your smile! you will always have a special place in my heart. love always monique

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Ronda Saunders posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Jeff, We will all miss you so so much! You were a wonderful person and friend. I will never forget all of the great times we spent together.You will always be #1 in my heart forever. We love you always and forever.- Love Ronda and Maddie

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From The Mortensen Family posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

There are no words to express our sorrow and disbelief. He is now and will always remain in our thoughts and in our prayers. Our deepest condolences to his family...

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Michael Hubbard and family posted a condolence

Wednesday, September 7, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as they go through this difficult time. We love you.

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Rodgers Family posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

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Dottie Mayo,Lisa Boettcher,Eric Mayo posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

Our prayers are with you in this very difficult time,now and for always....The mayo family he is gone but not far away you will see him again someday.

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Nicole Gunderman posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

I know we didn't really talk at all in the last few years, but Jeff, I'll miss you a lot. I'll be praying for you and everyone everyday. Love, Nicole

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David Saller posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

my thoughts, prayers and condolscences to the Bough family. Jeff, you will be surely missed . May you rest in peace my friend, God bless you

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Rosanne Farrell and family posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

You will always be a shining star. God bless your family and friends and please find comfort in knowing Jeff will be watching over you from above. Our prayers are with you forever...

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Jillian Farrell posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

My prayers are with you Jeff and your family. I will always rememeber fond memories we shared. God bless.

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James Canning and Deborah Standler posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with everybody surviving this difficult time. We will never forget you Jeff, and you will always have a place in our hearts. We love you and are happy to have shared many great memories.

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Lee D. Fink Jr. and Family posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

I'm sorry for your loss. My prayers will be with you and your family. Always remember that God is looking over you and our family, and he always will be their to listen and guide you. I only wish I got to know my cousin. My family sends you lots of love. Phone number: 1-570-643-3136

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Jarrod Wall and Julia Reed posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

Jeff, we will always keep you close to our hearts. You will always be remembered as a brother, a great friend and a wonderful person. We hope we will meet again in a better place. We Love You!

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Rose Rushen posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

Our prayers are with you Jeff. Love, Aunt Rose

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Joe Notarnicola posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. May God grant you His Peace as you all fight through this trying time.

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Karen Emery posted a condolence

Tuesday, September 6, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Bough family during this difficult time. The PSE&G Metropolitan Division Maintenance Department

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JEFF

1979 - 2005

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